"I love him for his smile, his personality, his warm eyes, intelligence." - When I asked my friends, these were the replies I got. Some could say that the person they love were "key" in keeping their enthusiasm up and roaring, that they cheer them up, motivate them, advice them. Few could even say, “He is so rich. He’s got lot of money”.
When you fall for anyone who meet these SPECIFIC REASONS it’s just an attraction or mere-exposure effect.
Unhealthy relationships starts at the point where u grow irritated and start regretting your decision You start losing your patience and even a small thing would look like a huge mistake and you start reacting with hatred ,fear and ignorance. This is where the reasons fades away .
Does that mean “Love without reason lasts forever” Maybe. But when you fall for a person just for matching your checklist...At one point of time, you will regret it.Love knows no reasons and it is beyond reasoning. Love connects your soul. It is the music of your heart.
So Let the love happen the way it has to be Naturally. The most beautiful things in the world are not seen and heard...But sensed...Your heart feels the love for him. Once the mind intervene its just a commitment not a feeling.
Keep falling in love over and over again without any reasons. Just enjoy every bit of your love without any reasons. Only one thing is constant in this world. Love. Only people fade, thoughts fade, not Love.!!
Reason is powerless in the expression of Love.
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ReplyDeleteLove can be either created nor destroyed. It ll be transform from one to another. Nicely written. pls do write frequently..
ReplyDeleteNicely written... I totally agree with your view on this subject. Love anyone with love we all need and accept them without any expectations. Love with reason is based on the certain expectation, as checklist you mentioned. There is no guarantee that all aspects of your checklist will complement the other person's nature. The conflicts and trouble begins once we discover the differences.
ReplyDeleteNicely written... I totally agree with your view on this subject. Love anyone with love we all need and accept them without any expectations. Love with reason is based on the certain expectation, as checklist you mentioned. There is no guarantee that all aspects of your checklist will complement the other person's nature. The conflicts and trouble begins once we discover the differences.
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ReplyDeleteyou touches various level of love . that shows maturity in your writing. The most beautiful things in the world are not seen and heard...But sensed touches me . I am able to feel up. Reason is powerless in the expression of Love is the gems in your writing
ReplyDeleteNice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...
ReplyDeleteNice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...
ReplyDeleteNice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...
ReplyDeleteBeautifully expressed Dipika !! started loving ur blog:-)
ReplyDeleteBeautifully expressed Dipika !! started loving ur blog:-)
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ReplyDeleteIndividuality and degree of independence both factor in the marital equation, which provides the breathing space. The Doctor's prescription for the breathlessness owing to the staying too close and fighting for his/her space is to stay a bit apart and admire/love him/her for what he/she is!
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