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Monday, February 17, 2014

I love him for so and so reasons...


"I love him for his smile, his personality, his warm eyes, intelligence." - When I asked my friends, these were the replies I got. Some could say that the person they love were "key" in keeping their enthusiasm up and roaring, that they cheer them up, motivate them, advice them. Few could even say,  “He is so rich. He’s got lot of money”.

Is this Love?. Will it last forever?

When you fall for anyone who meet these SPECIFIC REASONS it’s just an attraction or mere-exposure effect.

All these reasons are like a mirage in a desert. These things might be just an illusion .They just disappear when u move forward in journey of life. When these reasons are not met, It is human nature to get frustrated and disappointed. This is where our mind starts questioning our decision.This is where u begin to ask those question above. Is this love?.This is the point where We stop appreciating him for all the good qualities he possess and start blaming him for not meeting our expectations. We cling to our fairy tales until the price for believing in them becomes too high.
Unhealthy relationships starts at the point where u grow irritated and start regretting your decision You start losing your patience and even a small thing would look like a huge mistake and you start reacting with hatred ,fear and ignorance. This is where the reasons fades away .

Does that mean “Love without reason lasts forever” Maybe. But when you fall for a person just for matching your checklist...At one point of time, you will regret it.
Love knows no reasons and it is beyond reasoning. Love connects your soul. It is the music of your heart.
So Let the love happen the way it has to be Naturally. The most beautiful things in the world are not seen and heard...But sensed...Your heart feels the love for him. Once the mind intervene its just a commitment not a feeling.
Keep falling in love over and over again without any reasons. Just enjoy every bit of your love without any reasons. Only one thing is constant in this world. Love. Only people fade, thoughts fade, not Love.!!
Reason is powerless in the expression of Love.


18 comments:

  1. Such a wonderful writeup I love it :)

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  2. Love can be either created nor destroyed. It ll be transform from one to another. Nicely written. pls do write frequently..

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  3. Nicely written... I totally agree with your view on this subject. Love anyone with love we all need and accept them without any expectations. Love with reason is based on the certain expectation, as checklist you mentioned. There is no guarantee that all aspects of your checklist will complement the other person's nature. The conflicts and trouble begins once we discover the differences.

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  4. Nicely written... I totally agree with your view on this subject. Love anyone with love we all need and accept them without any expectations. Love with reason is based on the certain expectation, as checklist you mentioned. There is no guarantee that all aspects of your checklist will complement the other person's nature. The conflicts and trouble begins once we discover the differences.

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  5. Every loving and loved by personal need to read this correct their path to taste the success of love

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  6. you touches various level of love . that shows maturity in your writing. The most beautiful things in the world are not seen and heard...But sensed touches me . I am able to feel up. Reason is powerless in the expression of Love is the gems in your writing

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  7. Nice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...

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  8. Nice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...

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  9. Nice deepika, your words are like a smooth melody of the Flute...

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  10. Beautifully expressed Dipika !! started loving ur blog:-)

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  11. Beautifully expressed Dipika !! started loving ur blog:-)

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  12. Individuality and degree of independence both factor in the marital equation, which provides the breathing space. The Doctor's prescription for the breathlessness owing to the staying too close and fighting for his/her space is to stay a bit apart and admire/love him/her for what he/she is!

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