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Monday, February 17, 2014

I love him for so and so reasons...


"I love him for his smile, his personality, his warm eyes, intelligence." - When I asked my friends, these were the replies I got. Some could say that the person they love were "key" in keeping their enthusiasm up and roaring, that they cheer them up, motivate them, advice them. Few could even say,  “He is so rich. He’s got lot of money”.

Is this Love?. Will it last forever?

When you fall for anyone who meet these SPECIFIC REASONS it’s just an attraction or mere-exposure effect.

All these reasons are like a mirage in a desert. These things might be just an illusion .They just disappear when u move forward in journey of life. When these reasons are not met, It is human nature to get frustrated and disappointed. This is where our mind starts questioning our decision.This is where u begin to ask those question above. Is this love?.This is the point where We stop appreciating him for all the good qualities he possess and start blaming him for not meeting our expectations. We cling to our fairy tales until the price for believing in them becomes too high.
Unhealthy relationships starts at the point where u grow irritated and start regretting your decision You start losing your patience and even a small thing would look like a huge mistake and you start reacting with hatred ,fear and ignorance. This is where the reasons fades away .

Does that mean “Love without reason lasts forever” Maybe. But when you fall for a person just for matching your checklist...At one point of time, you will regret it.
Love knows no reasons and it is beyond reasoning. Love connects your soul. It is the music of your heart.
So Let the love happen the way it has to be Naturally. The most beautiful things in the world are not seen and heard...But sensed...Your heart feels the love for him. Once the mind intervene its just a commitment not a feeling.
Keep falling in love over and over again without any reasons. Just enjoy every bit of your love without any reasons. Only one thing is constant in this world. Love. Only people fade, thoughts fade, not Love.!!
Reason is powerless in the expression of Love.


Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Touch of Mist: Deepika Muthusamy book review by bookmarkks

Touch of Mist: Deepika Muthusamy

Source - http://bookmarkks.blogspot.com/2014/01/touch-of-mist-book-review-deepika.html 



‘Touch of Mist’ by Deepika Muthuswamy is a ostentatious, contemporary tale on affairs and concerns in it with a blend of today's relationship troubles and an attractive adore account parley in relation to a lady and her life's wretchedness and what all comes to pass to her throughout her whole expedition.

The volume is a mix up of affection along with capricious character of interactions when inconsequential matters can cause a lot of mistrust as well as pandemonium in a hale and hearty bond with the make and break dealings, the instantaneous adore fairy-tale and the confidence problem subsequently is the essence of the tome.

The narrative is a love chronicle of two youthful, urbane, IT experts, Gautham an outgoing persona and Reena, an introvert lady who gets together by chance, develop into associates by chance, when embers light and by chance their love yarn falls into place and they plunge head over heels in worship with each other and cruising into the twilight.

They countenance a small number of stumbling blocks prior to their wedding when Reena's father fixes her nuptials to Sandy one of their known ones. Gautham one way or another wins back his love and in concert they starts off a fresh verve concluding into matrimony.

They fasten the knot and commences a new-fangled being, however, stuff sets off haywire from the first day after nuptials when clashes hit the roof and characters come to blows with Gautham acts fully like a guy, where Reena performs like a lady with Gautam and Reena's tussles was attention-grabbing at first save for they remain undertaking that all the way through the paperback apparently for chalk and cheese raison d'ĂȘtre with their love out of the blue was misted up with personality conflicts which then turn out to be the lone perceptible reality on the subject of their connection.

They carve up their views and small clashes develop into big squabbles and the dependence along with compatibility concerns yield out of bed. Reena was distressed and it look as if implausible that she too had given way to this louse chase of being when actions as well as anger is on a ascent and yet subsequent to a lot of sweet-talk by their joint acquaintance Kishore, not anything appear to dig up their matrimony back on track.

The cost had been calamitous with a wedding that conked out even before the intensity of those three exquisite expressions “I Love You” could go under in and the primary sufferer is adore, which nose-dives and matrimony turns despondent when disintegration signals and the liaison goes to meet the maker and then they get divorced.

Reena turns out to be a social campaigner and get well-known towards the closing stages when they start missing each other, and at the end of the day they patch up. This legend ramble in the course of poles apart sentiments that tap the existence of the central characters such as adore, amity, nuptials, misfortune, anguish, expectations, the funny side, abhorrence, bliss, apprehension and finishes with a touching statement of belief that existence is to be in this world.

An extremely pleasant delightful, all-round as well as out of the ordinary contemporary starry-eyed adore anecdote it's a striking love yarn with the nature of relations we have in today's world with a small number of episodes sense cinematic that cleaves to your mind spot on as of the opening sheet with the initial part extremely charming and subsequent part as well seizes the exciting tale with the conclusion was gripping that in addition puts into words perceptive views on school teaching structure in present culture through the personalities in the work of fiction.

There was very small number of characters in the reserve which prepared it effortlessly clear who has furthermore been depicted incredibly on form. Gautham's disposition is exquisite who is the matured, supple personality chap that each lady require in their being save for at the finish he turns fully like Reena.

Reena has an assorted moral fibre who is extremely matured, naive and at periods imprudent as well as weak. Her temperament grows on form subsequent to her suicide shot. Kishore's nature is a huge help for the reason that the original point of the order has only Reena and Gautam. It's fine to enclose the third chap who was excellent in counsel and execute that all through the volume. Gautam's dad has fewer discourses however his personality is a remembered one.

The recitation was fairly first-rate with this volume wrap roughly each facet as well as predicament subsequent to matrimony that can be by far linked to genuine existence state of affairs these days where not long hitched are at each other's gullet for little stuff with the splendour of the chronicle smear in the assorted sides enclosed under this chronicle be it adore, life, passion, dependence, disposition and so on.

On the whole an awe-inspiring job and fine interpret by an unveiling writer with a straightforward writing and is a fine interpretation experience for the booklover along with a tap of both happiness as well as sadness in the paperback mesmerizes booklovers by outlining individual sensations at its profundity.

Format: Paperback ♥ Pages: 226 ♥ Published: October 2013 ♥ Publisher: Cyberwit ♥ ISBN13: 9788182534407 ♥ Language: English.