Friday, February 3, 2023

The Secrets of the Magic Stick

As parents, we strive to shield our children from the disappointments and hardships of life. In a world filled with instant gratification, it is crucial to guide our children in understanding the significance of disappointment. 

I recently had an eye-opening experience with my three-year-old son that taught me the importance of allowing our children to face disappointment and grow from it.

One evening, my son requested a visit to the play area. Armed with his cricket bat, he carried a stick from it and set off with excitement. Little did we know that this ordinary stick would lead us to a challenging situation.

As my son played in the sand, stick in hand, his eyes sparkled with delight. He would swing it through the air, pretending to be a mighty warrior. Each throw brought a burst of excitement as he watched the stick soar through the sky. 

As I watched him, I admired his innocence and enthusiasm. It reminded me that as parents, we often strive to provide our children with material possessions. However, it is often the simple things - a stick, a pile of sand, and a child's imagination can bring the greatest happiness.

The Anticipation of a Lost Stick:
In his innocent enthusiasm, my son accidentally threw the stick into a nearby bush, where a king cobra had been spotted just days ago. The fear of the danger that lurked in that bush made me hesitant to retrieve it.

A Cry for Help and a Fake Promise:
As any loving parent would, I tried to calm my disappointed son, assuring him that we would find a way to retrieve his cherished stick. He suggested asking someone for help, even shouting for assistance. However, I had to prioritize his safety and explain that calling security or strangers would not be a good option. To ease his heartache, I made a stupid promise that we would visit the shop today and get him a new stick. I unintentionally raised my son's expectations.

In retrospect, I realized that I should have placed more emphasis on his disappointment and taken the opportunity to explain that sometimes things cannot be replaced immediately and should have taught him the valuable lesson of coping with unexpected turns in life.

The Power of Disappointment:
As the evening wore on, Frustration and tears filled my son's eyes since I did not fulfill the promise, and he pleaded for immediate action. 

I held firm to my decision, explaining that life doesn't always grant us what we want and when we want. Overwhelmed with emotions, he cried himself to sleep.

A Parent's Reflection:
As I watched my son sleeping peacefully, a sense of pride mingled with a touch of regret. I had disappointed my son, but, I had taught him one of life's most valuable lessons. 

It is our responsibility to prepare our children for the realities of life, including disappointment. While it may be tempting to shield them from disappointment, we must resist the urge and instead teach them the lessons that come with it. By allowing our children to experience disappointment, we teach them the ability to adapt to challenging situations.

In the case of my son and his lost stick, I realized that my initial instinct to replace it immediately was not the best approach. By denying him instant gratification, I taught him that sometimes we have to wait for things we desire. I also taught him that life doesn't always go according to plan, and disappointment is a natural part of the journey.

Furthermore, Our children observe how we handle disappointment in our own lives. By demonstrating resilience and a positive attitude in the face of setbacks, we show them that disappointment is not the end, but an opportunity for growth.

So, to all parents out there, remember that disappointment can be a powerful teacher.  In the end, our role as parents is not just to shield our children from pain but to equip them with the power they need to navigate the ups and downs of life. And by teaching them how to handle disappointment, we empower them to become strong, compassionate individuals who can overcome obstacles and find joy and fulfillment, no matter what challenges they may face. 

Monday, January 9, 2023

The Best Hotels for a Luxurious Stay in Wayanad

Wayanad, the serene district in Kerala, is a perfect destination for those who love to explore nature's bounty. During my recent research on hotels for my stay in Wayanad, I came across some incredible options. Here are the top hotels that impressed me the most.

Nexstay Indeevara is a luxurious resort nestled amidst the picturesque landscapes of Wayanad, Kerala. This tranquil retreat offers a perfect blend of contemporary amenities and traditional hospitality, making it an ideal choice for travelers seeking a comfortable and serene stay. The resort boasts of well-appointed rooms, a multi-cuisine restaurant, a swimming pool, and an Ayurvedic spa. Guests can indulge in various activities such as trekking, bird watching, and plantation walks. The resort also offers a range of packages including honeymoon, family, and adventure packages, making it a perfect destination for all types of travelers. Experience the charm of Wayanad at Nexstay Indeevara!

Tea Terrace Vythiri ResortTea Terrace Vythiri Resort is a luxurious hilltop retreat located in the heart of Wayanad, Kerala.  Surrounded by lush tea plantations and breathtaking views of the Western Ghats, this resort offers an unparalleled experience of nature and luxury. The resort features well-appointed rooms, a multi-cuisine restaurant, a spa, and a range of outdoor activities including hiking, bird watching, and plantation tours. The highlight of the resort is its unique tea garden view rooms which provide a stunning panoramic view of the tea plantations. Enjoy a rejuvenating and unforgettable stay at Tea Terrace Vythiri Resort.

The Cove Lakkidi by VOYE HOMES
The Cove Lakkidi by VOYE HOMES
The Cove Lakkidi by VOYE HOMES is a charming A-framed villa situated in Wayanad's Lakkidi area. The villa's picturesque location offers peace and tranquility, making it a perfect retreat for guests seeking relaxation. The four bedrooms in the villa are well-equipped with modern amenities and small balconies that provide stunning views. The villa's interior features a hardwood frame, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere. The property is situated along the streams of nature, providing guests with a complete and immersive experience. Lakkidi is a town renowned for its pleasant and foggy climate, making it an ideal destination for visitors to Wayanad. The Lakkidi View Point, which offers breathtaking views of the surrounding cliffs, is a popular tourist spot in the area.

Vythiri Village Resort, located in the heart of the forest, offers luxurious treehouse-style accommodation is also an option to be tried out. 

Although these hotels may cost approximately 5000 per night, their serene locations and luxury amenities make them well worth the trip.